I was thinking about Valentine’s day and what men can do to get what they want from their woman and I had a flash of genius. My book “How to Get What You Want from Your Man Anytime” is absolutely a perfect gift for a man to give to the love of his life.
Think about it. Here is a man, wanting to make his woman happy, wondering what he can do to get her to be happy and loving to him. He arrives bearing gifts: some flowers, a little chocolate, a bottle of wine and a book that is titled “HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT FROM YOUR MAN ANYTIME!”
HELLO! That would put him in the genius lane. Just the dynamic of giving her a manual that tells her how to get him to do whatever she wants. He is telling her he wants to please her and this is how to do it. It almost doesn’t matter what the book
says. It’s the idea that this man has even considered thinking about the fact that you might want him to do things for you. Women complain the most that men do not think about their needs and yet, here is a man standing in front of you, handing you a little manual of how to ask for what you want.
What more could a woman ask for? Think about it, Men, wouldn’t just that gesture get you a lot more of what you want?
Here is a tiny excerpt from the book, illustrating how men and women are different:
“Driven by their instincts to reach a solitary goal, men, being linear thinkers, rely on logic, and are extremely results-oriented. Consider this example to illustrate the contrast between male uni-dimensional goal- oriented thinking and the female’s circular, random thinking. A man and woman take a weekend, getaway trip on a state highway going from Los Angeles to San Francisco. The man will boast that he can make the trip in only six hours. Most women that I know would prefer to take the coast highway and stop along the way for an intimate dinner or even for sex at a beautiful place. In fact, most women probably wouldn’t mind losing their direction and ending up somewhere else entirely, as long as it was romantic. “
The female sex has the power in relationship. From the time of their birth, women are into relating and communicating. The entire male sex rarely encompasses the art of relating unless a woman shows them the way. It is a gift that a woman brings to a man.
I want to take a slight diversion here in order to make something perfectly clear. Men are not the bad guys. I love men. They are these wonderfully creative, industrious, productive, sensitive, charming creatures who love to build things, solve problems, satisfy their physical needs, (i.e. belch, fart, eat, sleep, climax, and play with gadgets), as well as please the women they love. What they are not interested in doing is engaging in talk about their relationship, guessing what their woman wants, shopping, or being judged, disapproved of or nagged. They love sex. They love doing it, thinking about it, talking about it, reading about it and they believe that sex is affection.
I believe that men appreciate women who tell them what they want them to do. I believe that men cherish women who are honest with them and who don’t play games. I believe that men are attracted to women who have appetites for pleasure and women who
demonstrate their pleasure both verbally and physically. Finally, I believe that men will do just about anything for sex.
Let me tell you a little story that a man in my course loved:
A woman was practicing asking for what she wanted, and one evening she sat next to her husband on the couch.
“Honey, you have been working so hard and the business is just booming. I am so proud of you. You have just done an amazing job of getting new clients. I think I’d like to take you on a trip and if we are going on a trip we need a new car. I want you to buy me a new red Mercedes convertible so we can go.”
The next day her husband pulls up in a really fancy, shiny red crew cab pick-up truck with a sun roof. He blindfolds her and takes her out to the truck. When he takes off her blindfold in the front seat of the truck, this is what happens.
“Ooooh! Honey, this truck is beautiful. It’s big and it has leather upholstery and even a sun roof. Thank you so much. I love it.”
She starts kissing him and loving him and ends up giving him a BJ in the front seat of the truck.
Then she says, “Honey, I really love the truck but I really, really want a Mercedes convertible.”
The next day she had her Mercedes.
The gentleman, who loved this story, explained it this way:
“All I could think of was how fast can I get her that car because if buying her a red truck got me a BJ, just imagine what will happen when I get her the Mercedes.”
So I have given you a taste of what is in my book. I know it appeals to both men and women. So, Men, do yourselves a favor and quietly thank me when you hand her an autographed copy of her own personal manual that tells you both how to get what you want from each other. You can order right here!. Happy Valentine’s day!
Love, Susan