The first rule of finding a relationship is you must leave the house. Sounds silly I suppose, but many of you wish for a relationship and do nothing to find one. I promise you that sitting in your home in a security gated community, not one available man will knock on your door and announce that he has arrived to carry you off in his Ferrari. Probably the most likely person to knock on your door will be the pizza delivery boy. Harsh? I understand. Just like everything else in the world,
Finding a relationship requires some work. It doesn’t have to be hard work it is just focused.
What is true for all women is you have a limited perception of who the opposite sex is for you. That perception has been created by the men with whom you have had intimate relationships. Please be clear, I do not necessarily mean sexual relationships. I mean the men you have lived with, like your father, your brothers, any roommates, husbands or significant others. Theses males formed your perception of who men are for you and unless you do something to broaden that , that is who you will find in the world. The other part of that news is that it might not be their best traits that are represented in the new men with whom you engage. It will only be the memorable traits, the ones anchored in your subconscious by intense emotional events, which occurred in your life.
There is hope, however, and its pretty simple to do. Meet more men. Meet men outside of your comfort zone. Meet them one at a time and have conversations about what is important to them in their life. Keep a journal about the men that you meet and detail the likes and dislikes about each of them. Do not concern yourself with what these men think of you. Its unimportant at this time. You are doing research. You are not looking for a man yet. If this seems too intimidating, I can help you with something less scary
My theory works. I have twenty years of successful coaching to prove it. I have amazing success stories and here is my promise to you. If you do what I tell you to do when you are seeking a relationship, you will change your life for the better and that will include finding a wonderful relationship that will give you what you want. This life changing exercise is detailed in my book
“How to Get What You Want from Your Man Anytime”