Some (sometimes x-rated) random thoughts about sex in relationships!

A woman fakes an orgasm to make her man feel proud of his performance.

It is easier to lie about an orgasm and her satisfaction than it is to acquire enough energy to tell the truth and teach a man how to pleasure her unique body.

So when would now be soon enough to expand your experience of sensuality and satisfaction?

It’s no wonder we have so many men and women being bad lovers, and so many lovers having bad relationships. Many marriages fail because both parties are bad at sex and relationship. Unless one of them was fortunate enough to have someone with experience teach them about arousal, seduction, and love and sensuality, neither knows anything. Understand this: many women go their entire lives without ever experiencing good sex. Truthfully, so do many men. When men think that their own orgasm constitutes good sex, they don’t realize that a male orgasm is just the beginning, and they can do that by themselves without any emotional involvement.

It’s no wonder we have so many men and women being bad lovers, and so many lovers having bad relationships. Many marriages fail because both parties are bad at sex and relationship. Unless one of them was fortunate enough to have someone with experience teach them about arousal, seduction, and love and sensuality, neither knows anything. Understand this: many women go their entire lives without ever experiencing good sex. Truthfully, so do many men. When men think that their own orgasm constitutes good sex, they don’t realize that a male orgasm is just the beginning, and they can do that by themselves without any emotional involvement.

When you are ready to now expand your perception of intimate time, the specifics will be revealed in an easily consumable format.

We all deserve to have pleasure in our lives.  Thanksgiving is a time to be grateful for pleasure.

 

Love, Susan

Getting What You Want

susan@gettingwhatyouwant.com