Do you want an inspiring, passionate, intimate love relationship where you revel in being cherished by the man of your choice?
At Getting What You Want, Inc. I serve women who have had their heart wounded in relationship and have fear about romance reentry or making another mistake to choose a wonderful loving partner who will cherish and adore you. You may not be aware that women do the choosing and women do the ending of romantic relationships. It doesn’t always appear to be that way but when you look closely it almost always is true. Therefore, when you are about to begin romance reentry, you want to choose a partner who will passionately love you as well as heal your spirit and grow your self esteem.
I have system that works. Its very interesting to recognize that I have been a Registered Nurse for a very long time and have been saving lives the entire time. I worked in the Emergenc;y department of many hospitals saving lives physically with medical intervention for 40 years and for the past 25 years (simultaneously for many of those years) I have been helping others to heal relationship issues and find true love in order to have very successful love relationships. It’s just saving lives another way.
The difference that it can make in a human’s life is phenomenal. A strong and healthy love relationship can make you very happy and heal many emotional wounds.
A friend had been married for 30 years when her husband died from cancer. They had a difficult marriage and she was left alone at 55 with huge medical bills. She worked 7 nights a week and came to me saying I want to get married again but this time I want someone to take care of me. She gave her all to this process and within a year had met a charming man who also was a widower. She followed the process religiously and they now have been married 14 years. They travel together and adore each other. This relationship is so different from her first because she chose to grow and heal.
My five step process has been proven again and again to heal and allow people to grow into the person they were destined to be with the partner they were destined to have.
This is my simple process called love with C L A S S !
Step 1: Clarity– What do you really want? What kind of a relationship are you seeking? A Friend, A Lover, A Travel companion, A Spouse, A soul mate?
Be Specific. Know what you really want.
Step 2: Love Yourself– Expand your perception of who the opposite sex is for you beyond the intimate relationships you have had in the past.
This proven process was developed 25 years ago and these are some of the results
of this step.
a. You define the qualities of the mate you are seeking.
b. You define your deal breaker issues
c. You learn how to approach and engage anyone in an intimate conversation.
d. You heal from your broken heart and any rejection that you have experienced
e. You grow your self-esteem every time you have an intimate conversation
f.. You become a more attractive, charming, gracious person.
g. You own the power to choose the man you want.
Step 3: Ask for what you want_– learn how to ask anyone for anything and be certain that they : a. are the one who can deliver
b. actually listen to you and hear what you want
c. want to give you what you want.
Step 4: Success in the three essential ingredients of a relationship.
a) Chemistry- The ingredient that everyone recognizes and believes is enough to begin and continue a relationship. It is not enough alone.
b) Love with Respect. You can love someone and not respect him/her. You can respect someone and not love him/her. If you love and respect someone, you will be able to commit to that person unconditionally.
c.) Compatibility- do you want the same things in the areas of life that matter.
In other words is there a deal breaker issue that you want to ignore because this person is 99% what you are looking for in a mate?
These three ingredients are absolutely essential to have a successful relationship. If any of the three are missing, the relationship is doomed.
Step 5:Step up and Step out
Once you have completed the work in the first four steps, you are ready to STEP UP and meet the soul mate, partner, love of your life. Go anywhere and choose. Its up to you.
You can have what you want, just take action to get it.
Susan Sheppard
Relationship Expert.
Getting What You Want, Inc.
susan@gettingwhatyouwant.com
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