My theory entirely is that men are always trying to please women and their biggest dilemma is that they don’t have a clue how to accomplish this because women think differently than men.
I love men. They are these wonderfully creative, industrious, productive, sensitive, charming creatures who love to build things, solve problems, satisfy their physical needs, (i.e. belch, fart, eat, sleep, climax, and play with gadgets), as well as please the women they love. What they are not interested in doing is having the talk about their relationship, guessing what their woman wants, shopping, being judged, disapproved of or nagged. They love sex. They love doing it, thinking about it, talking about it, reading about it and they believe that sex is affection.
Men are sensitive, extremely so, to be exact. I think they get their feelings hurt perhaps easier than women do. The difference is they don’t show it. They don’t cry or even get angry, they just stuff it inside and withdraw to lick their wounds until they scar over and they are ready to go back out and fight the good fight again.
A woman can devastate a man with a look, an innocent careless comment, or if she doesn’t approve or appreciate his efforts on her behalf.
Men fully appreciate women who tell them what they want them to do. They seem to cherish women who are honest with them and who don’t play games. They adore women who have appetites for pleasure and women who demonstrate their pleasure both verbally and physically. Men will doubt their own production (money, success, sex as in erections) in some way whenever a woman rejects them. Men who will do most anything to get sex, do not inherently know how to physically please women, so take the time to teach.